Desire or Aim?
'Desire' - its human quality or you may say psychology. Everyone has their own desires which turn out to be their goals. It's not necessarily, that what you set as your goal is your aim. There is a great difference between aim and goal. An aim is not supposed to be your moral or desire. It is always something you look to complete which gives you satisfaction. Whereas, when we talk about our goals, it is a completely different story. Goals are your trophies for the completion of your task followed by a systematic schedule that needs your attention. Now, to complete these goals, you always need certain things on your side, but this may not happen as easily as we plan! It's not always the same thing with what we start. Often, we need to change our schedule, perspective, need, style, communication, environment, and social groups to achieve our goals. That does not mean that you are at fault, maybe it is just a twist of your fate. However, you do not need any kind of provision for your aims. You try to find out your own ways and rhythms to achieve it.
When we desire, certainly it has a reason. The reason is right or wrong. This is because it might be correct for you but for not others and vice versa. Many times, these desires are out of your affordability, but then the question arises: can you make it affordable?? Here the two factors fate and hard work fight a battle. Yes, many people just believe in one of these but trust me, both of them play a role that has its own value. Now, it depends on the person how these factors fight. If the person does not understand the ultimate achievement of their goal, then there is an absence of either of these two factors. Goals have many factors and things that need to be kept in mind while accomplishing them, but this is not the case with our aims. That's where you differentiate between aim and goal.
Aim only follows one condition you can only have one aim at a time. You may rather say that aim covers all of your goals because it is simply achieved by your potential, giving you never-ending satisfaction throughout life. Even taking someone's support needs a lot of dedication. Since that support is earned through the systematic communication and relations that you have maintained.
We should never weep at the accomplishments of our goals. Yes, after a certain point, your goals might start backfiring at you or may not bring what you expected but that's where you have to catch the prey. Instead of weeping, start searching for a goal that helps you to fight for your survival. The more you weep, the less are the chances to survive. No one can actually help you or you cannot survive if you give up hope on a past incident. Perhaps, you have to make yourself stronger every day by setting new goals. I am not saying to make a goal each day. No man! that's not the right thing. Accomplish one and then think of the other. If you start making a goal each and every day, then when will you analyze it? Analytics is also a part of your life. You have analyzed, what you have been doing or rather say what you have achieved? If you aren't able to answer this question, then there was no goal in your life. You just had an illusion in front of you. We have to learn to set a goal that is not an illusion!
The aim is simply not about accomplishing it. It takes courage and sheer determination to even think about it. You have to enjoy the pathway. You cannot just plan and aim for future development. An aim needs your happiness to be involved. Agreed, that at certain times you need to work more than expected but that is the specialty of aim. You don't expect things and amount, you accept the challenges and go beyond breaking chains of darkness. Aim involves everything which you have, face, fight with and feel in your life.
As a teen, even I get confused about my needs and wants. At a young age I cannot claim to be experienced but many times we face a situation that has no connection to our age. That's what the case is with me! So, what do you think? Have you decided on your aim? Do you have your goals? Are you really working on your goals? Let me know because communication is the best way you can explore!!
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